Well, recommended besides my posts of course!

I read to gather insights and perspectives from a variety of sources. Authors typically have done extensive research in a specific area, and have taken great pains to compile and edit their thoughts into a digestible format.

Last year I started reading a book by Arthur C. Brooks titled, ‘From Strength to Strength.’ To be honest, it didn’t initially resonate with me and I put it aside in favor of other material. 

Fast forward to this past week, when I was discussing career and retirement plans with a friend who mentioned several key points from the book and how valuable they had found it. So, I dug it out and started reading and wondered, “Why didn’t I finish this a year ago?!”

This book has many relevant points for a phased retirement approach, mostly from the perspective of using the ‘second half’ of your life to reinvent yourself. A few key takeaways for me:

First, Brooks places a significant emphasis on the power of connections. Whether it’s cultivating meaningful relationships or engaging with your community, he highlights the profound impact such connections can have on your overall happiness. He really stresses the importance of having at least a few, true or ‘real’ friendships (which he contrasts with ‘deal’ friendships with the people we know professionally). ”Who would you feel comfortable calling if you were in trouble?” he asks.

He also recognizes that life is unpredictable and adversity will shake us all from time to time. “From Strength to Strength” isn’t just about achieving success; it’s about building resilience. It provides ideas and a playbook of sorts for bouncing back from setbacks, facing challenges with a positive mindset, and emerging stronger on the other side.

The book makes a point to differentiate between achievement and happiness. Brooks counsels readers that it’s not an either-or situation; rather, we should find joy in our pursuits and savor the journey. Further, he challenges readers to elevate their spirits and outlook (with examples) to contribute positively to the world. He challenges us to find and make a meaningful impact in both your personal life and the broader community.

Many of the recommendations from Brooks can – and should – be started while we’re still working and perhaps beginning a phased retirement. Build friendships and resiliency; look for opportunities to make a difference in your community. 

That’s the point of a phased retirement, start now and make progress over time rather than attempt to do it all at once!